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When God’s Answers Are Better Than My Prayers

Do you ever try to dictate to God in prayer?  When you pray, do you tell God just what you want, giving a list of instructions, like you’re ordering dinner from a take-out menu?  I know, people say you should be specific in prayer.  But there’s also enormous power in just giving up, echoing the Lord’s Prayer’s words, “Thy will be done.”  Let me give you an example.

When our younger son, Timothy, graduated from college he wasn’t sure at all what he wanted to do.  Of course I had tons of suggestions, like any dad.  “Why don’t you call so-and-so?  Have you ever thought of doing such-and-such?  I would be glad to set up an appointment with X or Y.”

He worked as a babysitter – he’s great with kids – and then took his hard-earned money to hopscotch around the globe on the cheap.  I was cool with that.  You might as well see the world when you’re young, but as soon as he came back, I planned to make more of my suggestions.

All the while I told God just exactly what He should do for Tim.  The minute I closed my eyes, my head was brimming with suggestions, my brain on overload.  It’s not that I didn’t trust God, it’s just that…well, what did the good Lord know of the real world?

It was Tim, though, who offered a suggestion.  He sent me an email from India: “Dad, when I come back to the States, I think I’d like to spend some time in a Christian monastery to figure out what I believe.”

Wow, I never would have come up with that tantalizing idea.  Where did it come from?  (Guess!!)

Indeed, upon his return, he wrote to the Holy Cross Monastery, an Anglican Community of Benedictine Men up in West Park, New York, and asked if he could stay there for a while, worshipping with them, reading, praying, helping out.  Yes, they said, and he ended up staying for a life-changing six weeks.

Lots has happened to him since then, and Tim would be the better one to write about it and explain it – hey, Tim, you up for that? – but the really exciting thing is that he’s heading off in September to do mission work for a year in South Africa at the Mariya uMama weThemba Monastery in Grahamstown.

He’ll be working with underprivileged kids and also worshipping and praying with the Benedictine Brothers of the Holy Cross there.  What a year it’ll be.  I look forward to giving you updates.

In the meanwhile, the message to myself, the prayer advice, is to let go in prayer, to not dictate, to listen, to wait, to trust in God’s love and realize that any of my brilliant ideas pale compared to what God and the Holy Spirit might have in mind.  There could be no greater power than that.

When God Answers Weird Prayers

If you’re anything like me, your prayers often run along the same lines. “Heal them.” “Meet their needs.” “Tell me what to do.” “Thank you.” And so on.

But have you ever prayed “outside the box?” Have you ever asked for something unusual, even outlandish? I posed that question to a group of friends, and their responses amazed and inspired me.

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Rick once prayed about a woman he loved and hoped to reconcile with, in tears, saying, “If You can speak the heavens into existence, if You can part the Red Sea, if You can raise Your son from the dead—if You can do all these big things, certainly You can do something small, like bringing us back together again.”

God answered his prayer. Rick says, “I made tentative steps soon after that and when we embraced a couple of months later, I called it a miracle because it had been a nasty situation.”

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Teri says, “It may sound silly but a few years ago I had to do a short round of chemo therapy and prayed, ‘Lord, I know I sound 15 years old, but please don’t let my hair fall out. You know that I need my hair to be a salesperson.’ My hair got even thicker than it was, and now I have to have it thinned professionally every 2-3 weeks.”

Robin was in college when she was waiting one late night in an empty building to meet a friend who was hurting deeply. Two hours later her friend hadn’t shown. She saw a roach on the ground, so she prayed, ”God, make that roach turn around and run towards the door if you want me to go home.” It immediately turned and headed for the door—and so did she.

Forty-three years ago, Charles and his new wife had to load up their car with all their possessions to move about 300 miles away. The car, however, was in such poor shape they never knew if it would even make it across town without breaking down.

“Before we pulled out of the driveway,” Charles says, “I put my hands on it and prayed it would last the trip. It never ran better.” Just a few weeks later, the car died and had to be replaced.

One October, Patty was in a demanding season of ministry and had no time to rake the leaves that had fallen in her large Massachusetts yard. So before an upcoming event, she says, “I asked the Lord if He could make it snow a little to hide the leaves. The next morning, the leaves were covered in snow.”

Serenity tells of boarding a plane at a time when she was feeling anxious and overwhelmed with emotion. “I prayed silently and fervently, ‘Lord, I cannot handle this, I don’t know what I’m going to do!’

At the end of my prayer, the pilot announced that we were going to have to deplane due to an issue with the restrooms and would have to wait to board a different plane.” The change of planes gave her the time she needed and the rest of the trip went without incident.  

Sure, outside-the-box prayers may seem silly or strange sometimes. Of course, they do, because they are out of the ordinary, perhaps even contrary to some of our suspicions or beliefs about prayer.

But the Bible does urge us to “pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests” (Ephesians 6:18, NIV), so maybe praying for a roach to change his route or a blanket of snow or something similarly outside-the-box qualifies as “all kinds of prayers and requests!”

When a Prayer Saved Him

It was a morning in early March 1945, a clear and sunny day. I was 24 years old and a member of the U.S. Army’s 35th Infantry Division, 137th Infantry, Company I. Along with several other companies of American troops, we were making our way through dense woods in the German Rhineland. Our objective was to reach and take the town of Ossenburg, where a factory was producing products that were being used in the war.

For hours we had pressed through an unrelenting thicket. Shortly after midday, word was passed that there was a clearing ahead. At last, we thought, the going would be easier. But then we approached a large stone house, behind which huddled a handful of wounded, bleeding soldiers—who had tried to cross the clearing and failed.

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Before us stretched at least 200 yards of open ground, bordered on the far side by more thick woods. As the first of us appeared on the edge of the clearing there was an angry rat-tat-tat, and a ferocious volley of bullets sent soil spinning as far as we could see. Three nests of German machine guns, spaced 50 yards apart and protected by the crest of a small hill to the left, were firing at the field. As we got our bearings it was determined that the machine guns were so well placed that our weapons couldn’t reach them.

To cross that field meant suicide. Yet we had no choice. The Germans had blockaded every other route into the town. In order to move on and secure a victory, we had to move forward.

I slumped against a tree, appalled at the grim situation. I thought of home, of my wife and my 5-month-old son. I had kissed him good-bye just after he was born. I thought I might never see my family again, and the possibility was overwhelming.

I dropped to my knees. “God,” I pleaded desperately, “You’ve got to do something… Please do something.”

Moments later the order was given to advance. Grasping my M-1 rifle, I got to my feet and started forward. After reaching the edge of the clearing I took a deep breath. But just before I stepped out from cover, I glanced to the left.

I stopped and stared in amazement. A white cloud—a long fluffy white cloud—had appeared out of nowhere. It dropped from over the trees and covered the area. The Germans’ line of fire was obscured by the thick foggy mist.

All of us bolted into the clearing and raced for our lives. The only sounds were of combat boots thudding against the soft earth as men dashed into the clearing, scrambling to reach the safety of the other side before the mist lifted. With each step the woods opposite came closer and closer. I was almost across! My pulse pounding in my ears, I lunged into the thicket and threw myself behind a tree.

I turned and watched as other soldiers following me dove frantically into the woods, some carrying and dragging the wounded. This has to be God’s doing, I thought. I’m going to see what happens now.

The instant the last man reached safety, the cloud vanished! The day was again clear and bright. “I can’t believe this.”

The enemy, apparently thinking we were still pinned down behind the stone house on the other side, must have radioed their artillery. Minutes later the building was blown to bits. But our company was safe and we quickly moved on.

We reached Ossenburg and went on to secure more areas for the Allies. But the image of that cloud was never far from my mind. I had seen the sort of smoke screens that were sometimes set off to obscure troop activity in such a situation. That cloud had been different. It had appeared out of nowhere and saved our lives.

Two weeks later, as we bivouacked in eastern Germany, a letter arrived from my mother back in Dallas. I tore open the envelope eagerly. The letter contained words that sent a shiver down my spine. “You remember Mrs. Tankersly from our church?” my mother wrote.

Who could forget her? I smiled. Everybody called Mrs. Tankersly the prayer warrior. Frankly, I sometimes thought she carried it a bit too far.

“Well,” continued my mother, “Mrs. Tankersly telephoned me one morning from the defense plant where she works. She said the Lord had awakened her the night before at one o’clock and told her, ‘Spencer January is in serious trouble. Get up now and pray for him!’”

My mother went on to explain that Mrs. Tankersly had interceded for me in prayer until six o’clock the next morning, when she had to go to her job. “She told me the last thing she prayed before getting off her knees was this—here I paused to catch my breath—”‘Lord, whatever danger Spencer is in, just cover him with a cloud!’”

I sat there for a long time holding the letter in my trembling hands. My mind raced, quickly calculating. Yes, the hours Mrs. Tankersly was praying would have indeed corresponded to the time we were approaching the clearing. And 6:00 a.m.? With a seven-hour time difference, her prayer for a cloud would have been uttered at one o’clock—just the time Company I was getting ready to make its daring dash.

From that moment on, I intensified my prayer life. For the past 52 years I have gotten up early every morning to pray for others. I am convinced there is no substitute for the power of prayer and its ability to comfort and sustain others, even those facing the valley of the shadow of death.

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When an Answer Comes Slowly

We’re at the last soccer game of the season for my eight-year-old son Isaiah’s team. Parents and grandparents fringe the field. There are lawn chairs and blankets and cheers from the crowd. The players bolt and dash in the still-green grass. It’s warm enough for them to be free, uninhibited by the bulk of coats, and they’re playing well together.

It’s been about teamwork this season.

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I think about this, as my son dribbles a few yards and kicks hard. Teamwork, not only for the players as they’re learning to take positions and to pass, but for the parents, too. Many of us have children in different activities at different places, and we’ve relied on one another to get children to and from the soccer field.

This evening a friend left her son at our home so that she could take her daughter to softball. I took Isaiah and his friend to the game. Another son of mine, 10-year-old Gabriel, has soccer practice on a different field, and another friend will pick him up and deliver him to me because my husband Lonny’s at the pool with Samuel. Yet another friend is at her daughter’s volleyball game, and until her husband arrives, I’ll keep my eyes on her sons. Isaiah’s soccer coach is a good friend and the referee has been the boys’ buddy for years.

The sense of community is beautiful.

As families, we move our tent stakes out. We stretch our covering to cover others, and others stretch to cover us, too.

It hasn’t always been this way. When Lonny and I moved to the community 10 years ago, I thought I’d never find a friend. The village is small and family roots run deep as the river.

I prayed for a friend for years.

Quite a few years.

And in His timing, God answered.

Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer. (Romans 12:12, NIV)

Looking back, I’m comforted to know that those friendless years, those praying years, had purpose. I learned to lean into the Lord and not my loneliness. I learned to trust in His timing and care. And I learned that I would be okay, in His Presence, if His answer was “wait” or even “no”. I began to understand that the outcome, whatever it would be, was in my Father’s hands, and His hands offer grace, strength and love.

When answer to prayer comes long, there is always value in the wait.

The game is soon over, and we fold our blankets and chairs. We collect our players and move across the field to where we’ve parked our cars. Though it’s dark, we gather to chat a bit longer under the tall lights.

This is my community.

And an answer to a long-time prayer.

Lord, there’s now another answer to prayer that’s slow in coming. Help me to be joyful in hope, patient in affliction and faithful to keep praying. Amen.

What Prayer Can Do: Up on the Roof

Roofing was not my thing. Not with my fear of heights. But my husband, Richard, needed help reshingling and, thanks to delays in getting the materials, our son had gone back to college by the time we started.

That bright, sunny morning I stood at the kitchen sink praying. Lord, I’ll never be able to help Richard if you don’t give me the power to overcome my fear.

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For days I’d searched for courage in the Bible. I read about David, who battled Goliath. And Gideon, who led a small army of Israelites against the Midians on God’s command. Both men faced a job that seemed impossible and came out as heroes. I just needed to fix a roof!

“It’s time!” Richard called through the kitchen window.

I took a deep breath and followed him to the old wooden ladder propped against the house. He steadied it for me. My hands shook as I pulled myself up. My stomach felt queasy. I can’t do this, I thought, moving up another rung. I’ll never be able to do this. My whole body trembled.

When I reached the roof I crawled a few feet, keeping my eyes fixed on the old shingles below me. Anything to keep from seeing how high up I was. But I couldn’t stay on my hands and knees forever.

Ever so slowly I got my feet underneath me. Ever so slowly I stood up. Wow! In that moment, everything changed. I gazed out over the tops of the maple trees in our backyard, their leaves just starting to turn with the end of summer.

Beyond them were sprawling cornfields. Small white clouds dotted the bright blue sky before me. And I was part of it all up here. It was like seeing the world from God’s eyes. There was no fear, only a feeling of peace and awe at the beauty of this brand-new perspective.

Behind me, Richard climbed up on the roof with his toolbox. He stared at me in surprise.

“What are we waiting for?” I said. “Let’s get to work!”

What Prayer Can Do: The Three Rules of Life

Canon, my grandson, had always been a good student. Then the Covid-19 pandemic hit, and his school switched to re­mote learning. Without any classes in person and with minimal sport practices or games for more than a year, playing video games took over more and more of Canon’s time. Now that things were finally opening back up, his grades were suffering.

“I just don’t know how to get through to him,” his mom told me.

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I was worried too. It seemed as if every time I went over, Canon was glued to his computer, headphones on, joystick in hand. He played all kinds of games, and his friends played too, meeting up with him online.

Back before Covid, Canon’s baseball coach had taught the team three rules for a good life: Be a good person, be a good student and be a good athlete—in that order. Canon’s new priority seemed to be something else: being good at video games.

Nancy would know what to do, I thought one afternoon before taking a nap. Since my wife’s death a few years earlier, I’d really missed her advice. She always knew how to handle any situation.

With Nancy gone, I asked God how to help my grandson. As I lay down on the couch and closed my eyes, a word came to me: Juggle.

I woke up with the word still stuck in my mind. It seemed like a hint. Juggle. That gave me an idea.

The next time I went to visit, I sat Canon down for a talk. “Can you juggle three baseballs?” I asked.

Canon laughed. “You know I can.”

“Think of those three baseballs as your coach’s life rules,” I said. “Now there’s a fourth ball—video games. How well can you juggle now?”

Canon frowned, then broke into a grin. “That’s a great visual, Papa,” he said. “I never thought about it that way. I guess I can’t.”

Since that day, Canon’s grades have improved—and so has his juggling.

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What Prayer Can Do: The Pinecone Promise

Be specific in my prayers, I thought. Isn’t that how we’re supposed to pray? I’d spent three days at our church’s annual Forest Home Christian Camp retreat, the first half of it in tears.

Usually my husband, Anthony, came with me, but these days he didn’t have time for anything but the house he was building for us. And I just seemed to get busier and busier as a high school English teacher.

Now as I walked on the trails at the camp, I tried to pray. But pray for what? I had such a long list of things I wanted.

“It’s been three years,” I told God. “We’re still living in the trailer on my in-laws’ property. Anthony works on the house every day after work and on weekends. We never go out. The high school’s given me so much responsibility. Drama program, yearbook, English students needing extra help. I barely have time to go to the grocery store, much less cook. Please give me a lighter workload.”

I collapsed under a pine tree and continued. “Our fifth-year anniversary is coming up. I thought by this time we’d have a baby. I feel like the children I dreamed of having are slipping away from me.”

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When I’d gotten it all out I leaned my head against the pine tree. I needed so much. Yet what should I really pray for? Lord, what I need more than anything is to know you’re with me. If I have that, I can get through everything else.

A weight lifted from my shoulders. God would take care of me. That was the most important answer to prayer of all. It felt like an eternal promise. I wanted something to help me remember that when I returned home.

A pinecone lay on the ground. I put it in my pocket. The rest of the retreat passed peacefully.

Back home, I put the pinecone on a shelf in my bedroom. Whenever things got hard, I held it and remembered God’s promise. He would take care of me in his own way and in his own time.

A year later, the completion of our new house is in sight. We’ve found balance between work and rest. We’re expecting our first child. Many things on my prayer list are coming true.

It all started the day I asked for the one specific thing that mattered most: the promise of God’s unending love and strength.

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What Prayer Can Do: Strength in Numbers

When my seven-year-old son, Logan, first complained of an earache, I thought he had a routine infection. Then his hands and his feet began to swell. Over the next few weeks he became desperately ill. His blood pressure and temperature shot up, reaching dangerous levels.

A team of doctors determined that his illness was the result of an unchecked strep infection and his immune system was attacking his kidneys. The therapies and drugs they were using weren’t working. They were alarmed.

My husband, Timothy, and I were panic-stricken when we heard the diagnosis: “Logan’s in acute kidney failure and in danger of cardiac arrest.” The doctors started him on dialysis.

Timothy and I clung to each other and our faith. Our family and friends placed Logan’s name on several prayer chains.

Apparently, our son overheard some of our conversations about this. As I tucked him into bed one night, Logan asked, “What’s a prayer chain?”

“That’s when a lot of people pray for the same thing,” I explained. “They tell their friends, and then those friends tell their friends, until there are hundreds–even thousands–of people praying together.”

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“All of those people are praying for me?” Logan asked.

“Yes,” I said. “And God hears every prayer.”

Logan grew quiet and looked into my eyes. “Well, if thousands of people are praying for me,” he said, “maybe I should pray for myself too.”

“That would be a good idea,” I said. I kissed him goodnight and turned out the light.

“Don’t worry if you hear me talking in here, Mom,” he called to me as I left his room. “I’m just praying.”

The next day we returned to the hospital for Logan’s dialysis. But when they drew his blood, tests revealed that he no longer needed the treatment. His kidneys were suddenly working again.

 

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What Prayer Can Do: Safely Home

Black as coal, the tiny cat appeared suddenly at our back door. “We’re not taking in any strays,” my husband, Gary, vowed. Three days later I caught Gary feeding the scrawny kitten from his own cereal bowl. We had a new family member and we called him Kennedy.

The cat fit right in, but on his own terms. We held weekly prayer services in our parlor, and Kennedy greeted everyone like a church deacon. We always kept his bowl full, yet he insisted on cruising the neighborhood for handouts. Our kids started calling him Fat Boy. Christmas morning he’d investigate every package under the tree. He’d play all morning in the discarded wrapping paper until he found an empty box to snooze in.

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But as unexpectedly as Kennedy arrived, he disappeared one September day. We checked all his usual haunts. No one had seen him.

That December I just couldn’t get into the spirit of things. Christmas morning Gary started a big fire and I made the coffee before the kids got up. I couldn’t bear looking at the spot beneath the tree where Kennedy used to frolic. “God,” I prayed, “I’ve asked you for so much, but never anything like this. Please, could I have my sweet kitty, Kennedy, back?”

The children ran downstairs. Before long the living room was knee-deep in wrapping paper, bows and ribbons. But it wasn’t the same without Kennedy.

That night after the children went upstairs to bed, Gary and I sat down in the kitchen for a last cup of coffee. I heard a scratching at the window. I got up and peered into the darkness. Gary threw open the door. Kennedy hit the porch deck on all fours and sashayed in as if he had only been gone for a few hours.

I raced upstairs to wake the children. God had saved the best present for last.

What Prayer Can Do: Long-Distance Coverage

Back in Portland, Oregon, I’d had it all–a solid career as a freelance artist and steady acting work in local theater, TV and film. But I’d thrown it all away for dreams of Hollywood. Three years in and that dream was turning into a nightmare.

My parents, back East, didn’t need to know my problems. So when I turned on my computer to Skype with them one night I made sure to smile as usual when we talked about how things were going. “I see you still have a roof over your head,” Dad said, pointing to the apartment he could see behind me on the screen.

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“Oh, this is just a backdrop,” I joked. “I’m really out on the streets.”

Dad laughed, but then he got serious. “Tell us the truth–how are your finances holding out?”

My brave front crumbled. I told my parents everything–how hard it was to get auditions, that I’d found some art jobs, but they weren’t enough to cover my rent.

Dad insisted on sending a check. Mom thought I needed something more. “What would you think about praying together over the phone?” she said. “Every day for thirty days, just to see what it can do.”

In all my time in L.A. I’d never really asked God for help, not specifically. Now I was desperate. I agreed to the plan. At first Mom did most of the praying. I mainly cried. But as I listened to her talk to God about my problems in detail, I started to get the hang of it. “Tell God everything,” Mom said.

No, I didn’t immediately land a role, but I didn’t feel so hopeless anymore. I had my family and I had God, who I could connect to anytime through prayer. Then, just before the month was up, I got a call from a friend. He worked on the Ellen show.

“We’re doing a skit and you’d be perfect for it,” he said. The next day I was in front of the cameras and loving every minute of it. Back home, Mom and Dad watched the results of our prayers on TV.

Maybe I’ll never figure out Hollywood. But I’ve figured out prayer.

 

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What Prayer Can Do: Joy in the Journey

I never thought I’d end up a dishwasher at a fast-food restaurant. I had a master’s in early childhood education! But I hadn’t gotten a full-time job and substitute teaching just wasn’t covering the rent.

So there I was on a warm evening last summer, up to my elbows in hot water. My feet ached and I kept thinking about all the debt I had. Suddenly, a phrase my mom liked to say popped into my thoughts: “When there’s nothing else to do, pray.” Wouldn’t hurt to try. God, please give me a new job, teaching kids. That’s what I thought You wanted.

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Over the next few days, I made a game of it. Each time I washed a pan lid, I said my prayer. I wound up praying for myself a lot.

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One day, as I collected trays to take back to the kitchen, a woman came in, looking downtrodden. I asked her if she was OK. “I’m heading to Florida to take care of my mom,” she said. “It’s a lot of responsibility.”

“I’m sure you’ll do a great job,” I said. I carried the trays to the kitchen, thinking of the woman and the many others who came through each day. Standing there next to the sink, I felt that all those prayers for myself were a bit selfish. I know what I’ll do. Each time I wash a tray I’ll say a prayer for the person who used it.

Over the coming weeks I actually stopped dreading my job and started enjoying my coworkers. Soon, working at the restaurant didn’t seem so bad.

Eventually I got the job of my prayers—teaching elementary kids. But I was sad to leave the restaurant. Mom was right. When there’s nothing else to do, pray. She could’ve added, “It changes everything.” Even a job washing dishes.

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What Prayer Can Do: In His Sight

Once we were in college, the kids from my church’s high school youth group only saw each other in the summertime. We’d been looking forward to a get-together by the lake that day in 1952. So we were surprised when one of us, Harley, didn’t show. Finally our pastor arrived to explain what had happened.

“Harley’s had an accident,” he said. “I don’t know all of the details—I think he was working with some chemicals and there was an explosion. The doctors have bandaged his eyes. They’re not sure he’ll ever be able to see again.”

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All of us prayed nonstop over the next few days. I hated to think of Harley losing his sight. He was so smart and talented, with so much to give and his whole life in front of him.

God, please heal him, I asked.

Finally the bandages came off. Harley was okay! His vision was restored.

Life soon sent us all in different directions. I moved to California. Harley stayed in Oklahoma. Occasionally my mom gave me updates on what he was doing. I knew he went to medical school and became an ophthalmologist. Then I lost track of him for years.

One day I decided to see if I could find out what had happened to Harley. I looked him up on the internet and learned that J. Harley Galusha had become a true innovator in the field of vision correction, pioneering new techniques and procedures. He traveled all over the world—to Africa, India, South America—offering his services for free and training eye doctors.

Forty years after that long-ago summer day at the lake, I reconnected with my old friend.

“I’ll never forget how hard we all prayed for you to be healed,” I said.

“I prayed too,” said Harley. “But not just for healing. I asked God what I should do with my life, whatever happened. By the time I left the hospital I knew I was going to dedicate myself to restoring the sight of others.” God had answered both our prayers and through them, no doubt, the prayers of many others.