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Karen Kingsbury’s God-Given Talent

The following story first appeared on Bookish.com, and is used here with permission.

Karen Kingsbury's recent bestselling novel, "The Bridge," is arguably her most bookish novel to date—the story is set in a bookstore. And while it's a work of fiction, Kingsbury has previously used inspiration from her personal life in her novels, even going so far as to use her daughter Kelsey as the cover model for her Bailey Flanigan series. In the Kingsbury's upcoming novel, "The Chance," the author once again focuses on the power of words as she tells the story of a couple that writes letters to each other. Kingsbury has talked about her early career as a journalist and author—now she reveals the person who inspired her to work with words in this exclusive essay for Bookish.

I gave up the idea of being a writer the summer before I started college.

By then I’d been writing since I was five years old. Dr. Seuss had opened the world of words to me and the Christmas of my kindergarten year I memorized "How the Grinch Stole Christmas." I couldn’t get enough of stories and storytelling. My little friends wanted dolls and dress-up clothes that year. I wanted paper. Lined paper. The kind that came bound in a book, soft and off white with faint blue lines, paper screaming for a little girl to start at page one and dream in the open spaces.

Childhood passed and a box of short stories about horses and princesses and magical lands gave way to my days at Columbus Middle School in the San Fernando Valley. I wrote for the Full Sail magazine and by the time I was in eighth grade, half the annual publication was written by me.

My dad would read one of my poems or stories and his eyes would well up. "That’s beautiful, honey," he’d tell me. "One day all the world will know what a gift God has given you."

Sometimes I’d dream with my parents about being a novelist, writing books that everyone might read. My dad was always sure it would happen. "Someone has to be the next bestselling author," he’d tell me. "It might as well be you." They were words I held on to, words that encouraged me through high school to keep believing that writing was my calling.

But somewhere along the months of my senior year, I became disillusioned. Writing books seemed like a far-off fairy tale, like something I would’ve written about when I was a kid. I became more aware of the crazy injustice in this world—bad guys getting back out on the street and doing harm again and again. I changed my mind sometime that spring.

"I’m going to be a lawyer," I told my parents. "I’m not sure about writing anymore."

My dad’s face fell, but he kept his smile. "Whatever you do, you’ll be brilliant at it." He hugged me and gave a firm nod. "Everything will work out the way it’s supposed to."

More little words.

I began taking classes at Pierce Junior College—all my parents could afford—bent on a legal profession. But one of my first classes was Journalism 100—an option that met my freshman English requirement. It would be an easy "A" so I could focus on classes I wasn’t strong in—math and science. A few weeks into the semester, the professor assigned us a story about a fictitious apartment fire. He gave us the facts and we had a few days to write a compelling news story. The class met in an auditorium with nearly 100 kids so when I turned in my story I didn’t expect much feedback.

Professor Bob Scheibel taught Journalism 100 that semester for Pierce College. The man was a gruff veteran journalist with wild gray hair and dark glasses that slid down his nose. He didn’t talk, he barked, and from the beginning his expectations were clear. "One gross factual error on your news story and you’ll fail the assignment." He meant it. I remember turning in that first paper sure that I had the facts right. No automatic fail for me.

But a few days after, toward the end of class, Bob Scheibel put his hands on his hips and stared down the kids in the auditorium. "Karen Kingsbury?" he pushed his glasses up and scanned the room. "Raise your hand!"

Adrenaline rushed through my veins. I raised my hand, my cheeks suddenly red-hot as every face in the room turned my direction. I could barely speak. "I’m here."

"Good!" The word was a guttural shout. "You’ll come up and talk to me after class lets out."

He spoke a few closing remarks for the class but I heard none of them. Questions raced through my mind, keeping time with my pounding heart. What had I done wrong? Had I gotten the facts mixed up? Did I miss something critical in the details? By the time the class let out five minutes later, I felt sick to my stomach. Slowly, I made my way to the front of the room where Professor Scheibel was organizing a stack of papers.

I stood there, my knees knocking. "Sir? You wanted to speak to me?"

The professor spun around, his look intense. He took three quick steps closer to me and stopped. His eyes met mine with great seriousness. He pushed his glasses back up his nose again. "You’re Karen Kingsbury?"

"Yes, sir." I wondered if I might faint right there at the front of the classroom.

He pointed at me. "Two things." There was no hesitation. "First, you will never, ever stop writing." The hint of a smile lifted the corners of his lips, though his tone stayed strong. "Second, you will report to my office tomorrow morning. I’m placing you on staff of the school newspaper."

I blinked a few times. "Yes, sir."

"Karen," his voice softened just a little. "You are a very, very good writer. Don’t ever forget that."

I left Journalism 100 that day a different person.

My back felt a little straighter, my steps came a little quicker. I was a writer. Professor Scheibel had told me so. The next day I did what he said. I reported to his office and was led to the staff room where students produced the school’s award-winning newspaper. Professor Scheibel handed me a press credential and a feature assignment.

My head spun with the craziness of it all, but my parents weren’t surprised. They had been praying that I would come to my senses, that I might realize sooner than later that I couldn’t just stop writing. There would be other lawyers, but God had created me to tell stories, to share words with people that might touch their hearts and change their lives.

Two years ago, after my first #1 New York Times bestseller, I found Bob Scheibel—retired and in his twilight years still living in the San Fernando Valley. I called him and he easily remembered me. He congratulated me on my writing success, and I told him my memory of that long ago day. "I wouldn’t be a writer if you hadn’t said those words," I told him. "Thank you for caring."

I know Professor Scheibel was touched, because a slight sniffling sound came over the line and after a long moment he thanked me. "I had no idea."

That’s the thing with little words. The words my parents said to me growing up, the words Bob Scheibel said to me that day in his Journalism 100 class—they changed my life. We never know the difference we might make if we take the time to encourage someone. You’re reading this because it’s true.

Little words can make a big difference.

The other day, a young girl named Chloe came up to me at one of my events, eyes wide. "I want to be a novelist like you one day," she told me."

I just smiled and said the words that are still as familiar as my name. "Well, Chloe, someone has to be the next bestselling author! It might as well be you."

Little words.

Justice Tempered by Faith

I entered through the back entrance of the courthouse, my head down as I walked the hall toward my chambers. It was one of those days when I kept asking the Lord, Are my decisions helping individuals? Am I making a difference in their lives?

My mind replayed yesterday’s criminal docket-call, three hours of organized chaos where defendants, representatives for the State of Ohio and defense attorneys argued, pleaded and bargained for the sentences they felt were just. Always a trying experience, but especially so the day before Thanksgiving.

Back home that morning I had laid out most of the ingredients I’d need for the special cake and three dozen rolls I’d promised to make for our multigenerational dinner at my sister’s house. But that was only a reminder of the defendants I had sentenced to spend their holidays incarcerated.

Being separated from their families and friends could spark them to change their lives. No doubt, then, I had an impact on folks’ lives. Yet was it a positive one?

I’m proud of the way I’ve served the citizens of Montgomery County, Ohio, as a common pleas court judge for the past five years. Each day brings different issues and challenges. When it comes to sentencing, I try to fashion a judgment that fits the unique circumstances of each defendant.

Many are decent people who’ve just made bad decisions. For that reason, I start each morning with a prayer: “Give me the wisdom to help the people I meet change their lives for the better.”

It’s rare, though, to find out if I succeeded. More often, I find out their fate only if they return, charged with another crime.

I entered my chambers and glanced at the papers spilling from my inbox. What a mess, I thought, picking up the calendar my bailiff Stella had prepared. I had several hearings scheduled for that Wednesday morning, but maybe I could clear my desk and sign some documents before we got started.

Outside my chamber, I heard Cheryl, my video reporter, and Moira, my staff attorney, discussing the day’s work, which defendants’ cases would go to trial and which ones would plead. Amid the friendly banter, another voice spoke up—familiar, but I couldn’t quite place it.

“May I speak to Judge McGee, please?”

“What’s your name and what is this regarding?” I heard my video reporter ask the woman.

“My name is Erica. I’ve got something important to tell her.”

Erica. Now I knew who it was. A young defendant I’d met during my early days as a judge. She’d entered the courtroom with her face scrunched into a frown, her hair wild and unkempt, with an attitude to match.

On the day of her sentencing, I received a written case history. Dropped out of high school. Trouble with drugs since her early teens. A mother to a young girl and on public assistance. She was pleading guilty to yet another possession charge.

I struggled with the sentence to give Erica. Based on what I had read, prison time didn’t seem appropriate. Look at her; try to see the face of God, I thought. “I’m going to leave you in the community. I’m giving you probation,” I said.

She seemed pleased with that. But her smile quickly faded when she heard the three additional sanctions.

First, she was to return in 90 days to show that she was serious about being a law-abiding citizen. Second, she was to write a two-page report about her goals and objectives for the next five years. Third, she was to get her General Equivalency Diploma, her GED.

“Of all the sanctions, I will look most strongly at the last two,” I told her. “If these conditions are not met, I’ll have no choice but to send you to jail.” Erica scowled so fiercely that it looked like her two eyebrows had become one. “But if you work hard and set a good example for your daughter, I know you can do anything you set your mind to.”

“Your honor,” her attorney told me afterward, “you ask too much of our clients. For them, long-range planning is figuring out what to eat for dinner.”

“My decision is final,” I said. And I meant it.

Within weeks, I received Erica’s two-page report. Amid the misspelled words, she told me that she dreamed of owning two businesses—a catering company and a beauty salon. She wanted her daughter to graduate from high school and go to college. She wanted to help her family do better in life than she had.

“Simply reaching the end of the day is hard,” she wrote. “I’m not sure how I made it this far.” It was heartbreaking but honest.

The last time I’d seen Erica, at her 90-day hearing, I almost didn’t recognize her. Gone was the scowl that hid her beautiful almond eyes. She was properly groomed with her hair cut into an attractive style. Her probation officer issued a glowing report.

“I like my GED classes,” Erica said. “Everyone wants to help and my teachers make things easy to understand. I still don’t get math, though.”

Inwardly I smiled. I’d struggled with math in school too. Outwardly, I remained stern and reminded her that the GED was a requirement.

A year and a half later, her probation officer thought she was doing well enough to recommend ending her probation early. However, I nixed the idea. She hadn’t passed the math portion of her GED yet.

Then the economy tanked. The state had to make cutbacks—and the money required for Erica’s training and probation monitoring was no longer there. With great reluctance, I finally agreed to terminate her probation.

Periodically, I heard from people who knew Erica. I learned that she was living a positive life, although she still hadn’t gotten her GED. That worried me. Then I heard nothing.

Now Cheryl ushered Erica into my chambers. She looked radiant. “Do you remember me?” she asked hesitantly.

“Of course I remember,” I said. “But I almost didn’t recognize you.”

“Judge,” she began, “I have something to tell you…I got my GED!”

The squeal that I heard came from my own mouth. I didn’t realize I could make a sound like that. A very unjudgelike thing, I suppose. Tears stung the back of my eyelids as I rushed around my desk to give her a hug. “Oh, Erica, I’m so proud of you,” I said. “Tell me all about it!”

“It was really hard,” she began. “But I didn’t give up. I just kept trying and trying until I finally passed. I’m the very first person in my family to get a diploma! Everyone comes to me now with questions or for advice. And my daughter saw how hard I worked in my studies and got serious about her classes. She’s going to graduate from high school next year. Can you believe it? We’re going to go to college together!”

“I’m so glad you came and shared that information with me today,” I said. “What made you stick with it after your probation was over?”

Erica looked hard at me. “Because you said if I worked hard, I could do anything,” she said. “I wanted my daughter to be proud of me.”

Give me the wisdom…. In Erica’s case, it seemed that God had.

“I gotta go,” Erica said. “Someone I know is in court today and I want to be there for her. I want her to know that if I can make it, she can too.”

With a wave of her hand, she rushed out of my office. I sat at my desk. In front of me was a day’s worth of motions to decide and cases to review. A job to do. And I still had a cake and three dozen rolls to bake waiting for me at home, don’t forget.

But now it didn’t seem like such a heavy workload. Thanksgiving had arrived early.

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Joy Comes in the Morning

Every time my husband, Wayne, and I go on a trip, he grunts and groans as he lifts my heavy bag, then asks, “Do you have to bring all these books with you?” It’s a rhetorical question. After some 40 years of marriage, he knows the answer. Yes, I do. Those books are how I start my day. Every day.

I’m up at 4:00. Before I head to the office, I sit at my kitchen table, read, study, pray and seek the Lord.

I have succeeded beyond my wildest dreams as a writer, with book sales topping a hundred million. There’s even a TV show, Hallmark’s Debbie Macomber’s Cedar Cove, based on one of my book series (I’m thrilled to say that it is now going into its second season).

But I couldn’t have written all those books without the ones I start my day with.

First, there’s the Bible. I read it cover to cover every year, marking and underlining passages. Amazingly, I always find some verse that speaks to me in a new way or one that speaks to me for the first time. I never feel as if I am rereading the Bible. I feel as if I am reading it anew.

Last winter I underwent what should have been a routine medical procedure and ended up in the ICU for a week with complications. Then Wayne fell, breaking his arm in two places and tearing his rotator cuff. What’s more, I came down with shingles.

“I’m beginning to feel like Job,” I moaned. No sooner had I uttered the words than I seemed to hear the Lord say to me, But Debbie, don’t forget the great lesson of Job.

I grabbed my Bible and there it was: “After Job had prayed for his friends, the Lord restored his fortunes and gave him twice as much as he had before” (Job 42:10).

At the end of Job’s horrific suffering, he was overwhelmed with blessings. I held on tight to that lesson and good health finally returned to Wayne and me.

Then I turn to my Prayer Journal, the place I put my deepest wishes, the secrets of my heart. There were times in my life when I could tell only God what I yearned for.

He helped me overcome the negative voices I heard in my head, like what my third-grade teacher said to my mom: “Debbie is a sweet little girl, but she’ll never do well in school.” Or the one who exclaimed, “You can’t write, Debbie. Why, you can’t even spell.” (Eventually the Lord blessed me with spell check.)

All those years I prayed about my weight, I could hear the voice from my childhood that said, “Let’s go straight to the Chubby Department, Debbie. They’re sure to have your size there.”

I keep from focusing solely on myself by picking three people to pray for every year. At some point during the year, generally around their birthdays, I give them a Bible, with a letter describing how I’m praying for them.

The true value of a prayer journal is that I can look back over the years and see a record of God at work in my life and in the lives of others.

Every week I pick a different Bible verse to memorize and I put it down in my Journal of God’s Promises. Impressive, right? Okay, so sometimes I forget verses as I learn new ones, but many of them are inscribed on my heart.

For instance, if I’ve ever signed a book for you, you’ll notice that under my name I wrote, “2 Tim 1:7.” Whenever I feel afraid or doubtful I repeat that verse: “For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power, love and discipline.” I have whispered the words so many times they are a part of me.

Years ago, when I was struggling to find God’s purpose for my life, stymied by obstacles and my own failings, I was in the hospital to visit an ailing cousin and I got totally lost. It felt like a metaphor for my life. I muttered that verse from II Timothy.

Finally I stopped a doctor and asked how to find my cousin. He pointed to a door that was marked Absolutely No Admittance and hurried off. I was confused. Had he made some mistake? But what did I have to lose? I was already lost. I pushed open the door. It led me to just the right ward.

That experience became a symbol to me of how I would choose to walk through life, not with “a spirit of timidity but of power and love.” I would walk boldly through the most impossible doors. Claiming and clinging to God’s promises.

Of course, I keep a Personal Journal. Always have. In my opinion, a journal or diary is indispensable for a writer. I can record a snippet of what someone said or what they wore for later use in my novels. It’s a way of capturing life, of preserving its details.

Not long ago I looked through the diary my mother kept during World War II. Three days after she and my dad were married, he was on a troop carrier to Europe. Mom wondered if she would ever see him again and hoped he knew he was always in her prayers.

Probably through the help of his younger sister, Gerty, he had roses delivered to Mom on their first anniversary. The entry in her diary says, “Roses from Ted. Oh, my heart.” Six simple, unforgettable words that speak volumes.

In many ways my Gratitude Journal may be the most important book I write in. Every day, no matter how I’m feeling, I put down five things I’m grateful for. My family, a friend, something in my writing, a mentor, a perfect sunrise.

It might be something that happened years ago. I’ll always be grateful to Sister Seraphina, my eighth-grade teacher, who saw me struggle through reading, math and just about every other subject. But she knew I was really good at one thing: knitting. So she organized a fashion show of my sweaters.

My classmates were amazed. It was a terrific boost to my self-esteem, and to this day I am a devoted knitter.

Gratitude sustains the soul. How can we experience grace if we don’t feel grateful? How do we know we’ve been blessed?

Norman Vincent Peale said we should be grateful for blessings not yet received, for blessings unknown. I find that to be powerful advice. Gratitude is a practice that opens me to God’s gifts every day.

So now you know why poor Wayne always grunts and groans over my luggage. And I think you know that he doesn’t really mind. These are the books I must write in before I start work writing my own.

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Journaling as a Spiritual Practice

A sweet scene unfolded in the pizzeria where I was having a quick dinner before attending church. It was a spring day in New York City, sunny but chilly; a robust man in his forties, dressed in a polo shirt and plaid shorts, came in with his six-year-old in school clothes, her long blond hair in a ponytail. Soon she was chatting up a storm in the booth next to me. They ate—two big slices for him, two child-size slices for her—and talked.

“We’re on a date,” the girl said proudly.

Her dad took a second to answer. “Yeah, I guess so. We’re on a date.”

“We’ve never been on a date before. This is the first time.”

“Yes,” he said. “What would you like to talk about?”

“Well,” she paused thoughtfully, “what did you do today at work?”

“I didn’t go to work. I met some friends and we went to a baseball game. Our team lost.”

“Oh,” she said, “I’ll bet they’ll do better next time.”

“Yeah, I’m sure they will. And what did you do today at school?”

And so it went. Father and daughter were taking the time to be together, sharing and listening, being present, getting to know each other better.

As they left, I heard him say, “So, did you like our date?”

“Yeah! Let’s do it more and more!”

Their exchange made me smile. Why, that’s how it is with our Creator, I thought. God wants to hear from us. He wants to spend time with us, know how our day went, what we’re thinking, what’s on our mind. He wants to get to know us and wants us to know Him better too.

One way to develop and strengthen that bond with God is to spend time together—like that father and daughter—in prayer, in Bible study, in quiet time or in writing in a journal. Yes, journal writing is like having a date with the most important Person in your life…God.

A journal can hold many things: the events of your day; your concerns; your prayers; your list of things to be thankful for; your praises of God; your musings about people you love, strangers you meet, surprises in your day, a beautiful moment in nature, antics from your favorite animal, an illuminating Scripture, an inspiring quote.

You can record your sadness or gladness, a disappointment or pleasure, a failure or a success, good times and tough times. It might be a long season of illness and recovery or a broken relationship or lost employment. But with faith as your polestar, your words can be building blocks to rejuvenation and renewal, helping sweep you upward to the next summit of spiritual growth.

You may write a few lines or pages upon pages, or maybe just a single word: love, scared, trust. Maybe when words don’t come or the pen won’t move, there will be a splattering of color: crayons drawing a sun, tree or flower, or an abstract painting of red, yellow and blue splashes, or a collage of paper cutouts glued to the page.

Maybe it will be a poem that unfolds from a feeling, or some notes to music your heart hears, or a dream that is a doorway to a new understanding of yourself. Each mark, whether words or image, song or story, is a prayer—an offering, a gift, a stepping-stone toward wholeness, healing or rebirth. Maybe it will appear as a stream of joy and laughter bursting forth as surprise, revealing newfound boldness and bubbling confidence.

Whatever goes into your journal and however you choose to express it, it’s yours. Everything you write in your journal helps you to grow deeper in your walk with God, to strengthen your faith, to grow hope, to become more of who you were created to be: a precious child made in God’s image; someone God created with love and said, “It is good.”

How to Begin

1. Set aside a certain time each day.
Is the morning, before you get ready for work or the family awakens, a good time? Is there a free moment or break in your day that’s better? Is just before bedtime best, when the house is quiet and so are you?

2. Where is your prayer closet?
Find a calm and quiet place where you can be free from distractions. Many times we read that Jesus went away to pray—in the wilderness, on a mountain, at a lake, on a boat. He knew the importance of a certain place and a time apart. So will you.

3. Date your page.
This is a record of your life-moments and all its seasons—the smooth, the winding, the low, the heights, the bumps and starts along the road. The timeline will always reveal God “who directs our path” and “never leaves us comfortless.”

4. Start writing.
A word, a thought, a sentence and more will tumble forth. What is in your heart? Maybe it’s nice; maybe not. Say it anyway. Tell your story. Don’t judge, don’t censure, trust yourself to God’s ever-present, compassionate care. And close with, “Thy will be done.” It leaves every outcome in the hands of God for whom nothing is impossible.

5. Listen.
Take time to pause and listen to God bringing you an answer, an idea or guidance. “Be still, and know that I am God….” (Psalm 46:10)

6. Put away your journal in a private place.
Protect your journal writing by keeping it safe. You may wish to share it with another person, if you choose. It’s up to you.

7. Read your journal from time to time.
Whether it’s weekly, monthly, several times a year or on special occasions like birthdays or New Year’s, rejoice in how much you’ve grown and how much you’ve overcome. Mark your answered prayers; you’ll be amazed. And most of all, see the good gifts of God all around you.

Is Valentine’s Day Just for Couples?

“We are most alive when we’re in love,” wrote the novelist John Updike. If we take Updike’s view, Valentine’s Day, February 14, is a very “alive” day each year. But is Valentine’s Day just for couples in love?

Emphatically, no—Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love in all its forms. Consider extending Valentine’s wishes or celebration to these relationships in your life.

Yourself

Happy, single woman holding a heart on Valentine's Day.

Maybe even before you express love to a romantic partner, take Valentine’s Day as an invitation to reflect lovingly on who you are, what you do, what you stand for, and what you are becoming. Say “I love you” to….you!

Neighbors

Valentine's Day gift for a friend

A neighbor is a unique relationship, one in which you are connected by chance circumstance as much as any other factor. Not all neighbors are at the Valentine-level, but those who are thoughtful, kind, fun, inclusive, or whose gardens or paint colors you admire would love to hear from you on Valentine’s Day. You never know when a surprise message turns someone’s whole day around.

Family

Valentine's Day for family

Greeting card companies make Valentine’s Day cards for grandparents, grandkids, aunts, uncles, and siblings, in addition to spouses and partners. But why not extend the celebration to include cousins, in-laws, godparents, any family members who light up your life and would love to feel the love from you?

Friends

A group of friends on Valentine's Day

An abiding friendship is aptly described as a love-filled relationship. Drop a note to a friend whose support, laughter, insight, and patience has enriched your life, to say thank you and to assure them that they are loved.

Who will you wish a Happy Valentine’s Day this year?

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Is the North Pole Real? Welcome to North Pole, Alaska

As Christmas approaches, a sense of childlike wonder and curiosity fills the air. Kids, and even adults, might be wondering… Is the North Pole real? Look no further than North Pole, Alaska!

The city of North Pole sits nestled in the Alaskan wilderness with a population of only 2,243. Not to be confused with Earth’s geographic north pole, some 1,700 miles to the north, this North Pole started out as homesteads before it became a city in 1953.

Though the town’s holiday season gets busy, visitors can enjoy the sights—like Santa Claus’ house and the giant Santa statue—all year round. Take a tour of North Pole, Alaska, with our photos and meet some of its residents, including Mr. Claus himself!

Photos by Eric Engman

Inspiring Words from Winter Olympians

[MUSIC PLAYING] Hi, my name’s Kelly Clark. I compete snowboard halfpipe, and I’m from Mammoth Lakes, California. There’s a quote that I love from this guy named Kris Vallotton, and it says, Vision gives pain a purpose. And so it’s really good to have perspective of where you want to go, because it helps you make the day-to-day choices that help you get there.

Hey, I’m Gus Kenworthy. I’m 22 years old, and I’m a freeskier, competing in slopestyle and halfpipe, from Telluride, Colorado. One quote that I kind of try and live by is by Steve Prefontaine. And it just says, To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift.

Hi, I’m Heather McPhie, freestyle mogul skier, Olympic hopeful for the Sochi 2014 games. Really excited about it. One of my favorite quotes right now is, Move your body, and your heart will follow.

Hi, everybody. My name is Greta Eliasson. I’m a slopestyle freeskier. I’m from Salt Lake City, Utah. My mom and dad got me on the slopes, and they’re definitely my inspiration. And they always told me, Greta, if it’s not fun, you don’t have to do it, so I’m all about the fun.

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Inspiring Summer Quotes

For many, summer is the best time of the year. With the warm weather and the sunny days, we can find many reasons to smile. Some of our finest poets, authors and philosophers have praised the summer months, so we thought we’d share some of our favorite summer quotes with you.

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Inspiring Stories on Getting to Church

Has the comfort of your recliner ever tempted you to stay home from church because you don’t feel great or you’re really tired? Yeah, I suspect I’m not the only one. Sometimes we become so accustomed to our routines that we take things for granted and forget how blessed we are to go to church. God’s sent several visuals over the past few months to remind me of that . . .

On this particular Sunday morning, I noticed something at the start of the service that touched my heart. Supported by her husband’s hand under her arm, a sweet lady I’d never seen before walked slowly in the door and sat at the end of our row. Her turban made it obvious that she was undergoing a major health situation, punctuated by the oxygen tank that was her accessory that morning. I could tell that the walk into the building had exhausted her.

It brought tears to my eyes to realize what an effort it had been for her to get there. I saw church through her eyes that morning—the comfort, the strength and the hope that she could cling to for the days ahead.

On another Sunday, I noticed a dear man who’s attended our church for many years. He’s in a wheelchair now, and it’s a slow process for him to get from his car into the building. I watched him one service as he laboriously moved from his chair to one of the seats. I was tired just from watching the effort that it took. I can’t even imagine how long it takes him to get ready to come to church, but he’s there every Sunday.

And then there’s the visual from several months ago that moves me to tears every time I think about it. A missionary had just returned from another country far around the world. It was one of those countries where expressing your faith meant that your family would disown you, and sometimes it even meant a death sentence.

As the missionary shared slides from his time there, there was one picture that is now etched in my mind and heart forever. It showed an older man with no legs sitting on the hot sand. The missionary said, “This is _________ on his way to church. It takes him many hours to get there as he sits on the sand and pushes with the stumps of his legs, making it a foot or so at a time, repeating the process over and over until he gets there.”

Scooting to church on the sand.

Oh my, sweet friends! When’s the last time that we were that inspired to get to church? When’s the last time we thanked God for the blessing of hearing the sermons, for the ability to see the words on the big screens and for the legs to walk into the building with ease?

Will you join me today in thanking Him for the priceless blessing of going to church?

Inspired to Create a Grand New Flag

I’ve always been interested in the flag. I pledged allegiance to it as a schoolboy. I fought for it in Europe during World War II, and it was here to welcome us soldiers on our return home.

The Stars and Stripes had 48 stars for the 48 states back then. But in the late fifties, things changed. Two new states were joining the union. How would the new flag accommodate them?

Well, not too long ago while researching a book on the flag, I read about the man who came up with the 50-star design. In fact, he was not even an adult at the time. He was just a 17-year-old high school kid in Lancaster, Ohio. I gave him a call to hear his remarkable story.

On a Friday afternoon in the spring of 1958, Robert G. Heft was riding the bus home from school. He was thinking about the assignment his history teacher, Mr. Pratt, had given the class—a project that demonstrated their interest in history. Something visual. Something original. By Monday.

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As Robert rode through downtown Lancaster, he saw the flag on top of city hall. “That’s what convinced me,” he told me. “I would design a new flag.”

Alaska was likely to soon become the 49th state. “But I knew that Alaska was heavily Democrat,” he says. “The Senate would have to approve the addition, and it was dominated by Republicans at the time. Everyone was saying that they would be adding another state to balance it out.”

He had a hunch that then-Republican Hawaii would soon become the 50th state.

At home that night he sketched out a grid for 50 stars. “I couldn’t just throw them in anywhere.” So he came up with a design. Five rows of six stars with four alternating rows of five stars.

That next morning he took the family’s three by five flag out of the closet, sat down with scissors on the living room floor and cut out the blue and white-starred corner.

“What did your parents do?” I couldn’t help asking.

“My mom was horrified. She hollered at me for desecrating the flag. I insisted it was for a school project, and I’d make sure it looked okay.”

He biked downtown to Wiseman’s Department Store and bought a new piece of blue cotton broadcloth. He also got some iron-on mending tape. “The kind my mom used for patches.”

With a cardboard pattern he traced 100 stars on the tape and cut them out. One hundred so he’d have a star for each side of the blue fabric.

“I wanted to get Mom to sew the new background to the old flag,” Robert says, “but she wouldn’t have anything to do with it. I got out her old foot-operated Singer. I was amazed I could actually work the thing.” He sewed on the blue background and ironed on the stars. Project done.

“You must have gotten an A,” I said.

Robert chuckled on the phone. “Not on your life,” he said. “My teacher, Mr. Pratt, was a taskmaster. He looked at what I’d done and said it wasn’t the real flag. Not with 50 stars. I explained my reasoning, and he still just barely gave me a passing grade. I was peeved!”

“What did you do?”

“For the first time I really spoke out. I told him I deserved better. I had a friend who’d done a collage of leaves and got an A. What I’d done showed a lot more imagination. Mr. Pratt looked at me coolly and declared, ‘If you don’t like the grade, go get the flag accepted in Washington!’”

And that’s exactly what Robert Heft set out to do. He bicycled over to the home of his congressman, Walter Moeller, knocked on the door, gave him the flag and explained what it was for.

“I asked him if he would take my flag to Washington, and if there were ever a contest to determine the design for a 50-star flag, would he present mine. He was so bowled over that he agreed, probably just to get rid of me.”

For the next two years, Robert waited in anticipation. In January 1959 President Eisenhower signed a proclamation announcing the admission of Alaska as the 49th state. As with all new states, the star would be added on the following July 4.

That 49-star flag—seven rows of seven stars—was almost immediately obsolete. Because in August 1959, just as Robert had expected, Hawaii became the 50th state.

He’d already graduated from high school by then, the woeful grade still in Mr. Pratt’s book. Robert was working as a draftsman for an industrial firm and going to college at night. Whatever happened to my flag design? he wondered.

He’d heard that thousands of new designs had been submitted. A special commission of congressmen was screening them and choosing five for submission to President Eisenhower.

“In early June,” Robert says, “I was working at my drafting board when one of the secretaries at the firm rushed over to me. ‘There’s a congressman on the phone for you,’ she said. It was Congressman Moeller. I recognized his gravelly voice right away. ‘Son, I’m proud to tell you that President Eisenhower has selected your design for our nation’s new flag. Congratulations.’”

Robert flew to Washington to see his flag flown over the Capitol for the first time. Thousands of others had submitted the same design, but Robert Heft’s had been the first. Moreover it wasn’t just a sketch. It was an actual flag. That was a big plus.

Since then Heft’s original handmade version has traveled; it’s flown over every state capital building and 88 embassies, and it is the only flag in American history to have flown over the White House under five administrations. It even has a patch on it from a bullet hole it caught in Saigon in 1967.

At the end of our talk I had one last question. “What about your grade?”

“The day I returned from Washington, Mr. Pratt changed it. But you know,” Robert mused, “if I hadn’t gotten that bad grade in the first place I wouldn’t have given the flag to Congressman Moeller. And if I hadn’t done that, I never would have gone to Washington….”

For more than 40 years, longer than any other, his design has been the one we know. “But I’ve got a good design for fifty-one,” he said, “in case we add another.”

It’s good to be reminded that Old Glory is a work-in-progress. Always has been, I guess. From the 13 original Stars and Stripes to the star-spangled banner of today, long may it wave.

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Inspiration to Go: Hope and Happiness at McDonald’s

A personal touch is the last thing you’d expect at a fast-food drive-through window, right? Well, it’s what you get at the McDonald’s on National Road in Columbus, Indiana, where I live. Something extra comes with your coffee and Egg McMuffin. You get a friendly “How are you today?” from a young man who takes time to really listen to your answer and offer a word of kindness, encouragement, even prayer, if that’s what you need. And you get a smile so genuine and full of joy that you drive off feeling lighter and happier yourself. I go there as much for the smile as for the food.

It’s all courtesy of 25-year-old Joseph Embry. In the five years he’s worked the window, he’s built quite a following in our town. To his regulars he’s our ambassador of blessings. But ask Joseph about his gift for lifting people’s spirits, and he’ll say he wasn’t always so positive. His childhood wasn’t exactly idyllic. His father abandoned him when he was a toddler. He had a loving mother and stepfather, but their life in Anderson, Indiana, was a struggle to make ends meet. Jobs were scarce, money was tight and the family moved often. Joseph fell behind at school, never settling in. He was angry, “always looking for a fight,” he says. He dropped out his junior year and drifted, picking up some factory work, but nothing lasted for long.

One Sunday afternoon, his stepdad had it out with him. “My dad sat me down and said, ‘When are you going to get serious with God? He wants to get serious with you.’ Somehow that got through to me. What was God trying to say to me? Why didn’t I listen?”

About that time Joseph snagged the job at McDonald’s. It could have been just another minimum-wage dead end, but Joseph decided God had a personal mission for him. “I started asking people how they were,” Joseph says. “If they were grumpy, I’d say something funny and make them laugh. If they seemed down, I’d give them encouragement. Why not try to cheer them up?”

Joseph has an uncanny way of recognizing customers’ voices through the tinny drive-through speaker and remembering the little details that make each unique. There’s the woman who likes an extra granola packet with her yogurt parfait and the state trooper who takes extra milk and sugar with his coffee. Joseph’s interest in them goes deeper than their order. How’s work? How are their kids, the rest of their families? Last year one regular confided in him about making the tough decision to move her mother into a nursing home. To this day, he always asks how her mom is doing.

“I pray for people when I hear they’re going through something,” Joseph says. No need is too big or too small. He prays for the woman who lost her child in an accident. He asks for good weather for the landscaping crew in the pickup truck. He prays for the little blind dog who rides with one of his regulars and for a customer undergoing cancer treatment. “Don’t give up,” he says. “Have a blessed day.”

Sometimes customers are short-tempered. “I try to be understanding,” he says. “You never know what someone’s up against.” These days part of his job is helping new employees learn the ropes. But his secret to success—and happiness—goes way beyond the drive-through. As Joseph told me one morning when I stopped for coffee, “God wants us to love one another. That’s all you’ve gotta do.” You can supersize that!

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In Memory of John Wooden

Anyone who knows me knows that I am a die-hard sports fan—especially basketball. I pretty much live for March Madness! I even spent part of my career as a sportswriter for a Southern Indiana newspaper. Loved it!

So, when I recently heard one of my esteemed colleagues, Steve Laube, sharing a story about his encounter with legendary basketball coach John Wooden, I hung on every detail.

Steve, owner of The Steve Laube Agency, did not disappoint. What a tremendous story! The day after Coach Wooden’s death in 2010, Steve wrote about his encounter with Wooden. Steve is allowing me to share it with you as a guest blog today.

I hope it blesses you as much as it blessed me:

Steve Laube and Coach John Wooden in 1974.The great basketball coach John Wooden passed away at the age of 99. As you can see from the photo, I had the privilege of attending one of his basketball camps during the summer of 1974.

It was a John Wooden and Bill Sharman (then coach of the Los Angeles Lakers) camp in Honolulu. We lived and breathed basketball 24/7 during that week. We drilled during the day, sat in classes and scrimmaged in the afternoons and evenings.

It was heaven for an aspiring athlete. (For the rest of the world, that week was notable because President Nixon resigned that Thursday August 8, 1974.)

During one drill Coach Wooden pointed at me and said, “Come here young man and show me how you rebound the ball.” I sheepishly came out in front the other players and for a couple minutes Coach Wooden schooled me on how to box out.

No matter what I did, spinning, pushing, hip-checking and jumping, he always snagged the rebound. I couldn’t believe this gray haired “old man” who was at least five inches shorter than I could do that. (Coach Wooden would have been 63 at the time.)

It was only later that I found out that he was in the Hall of Fame…as a player (inducted in 1960)! No wonder he taught this skinny kid a lesson!

When that exercise was over he patted me on the back and said, “Good work, son.” He didn’t shame me; he didn’t show me up.

He taught me and everyone else on the court the power of good footwork, dogged determination, and that you didn’t have to jump high to get every rebound. The memory of that is so strong I can still feel his elbows, hips and other bones grinding into my thighs and ribs as I tried to get around him.

Later that week they had us practice free throws until we were sick of them. Little did I know that at one time in his playing days, Coach Wooden made 134 consecutive free throws in a 46-game period.

And the other instructor was Bill Sharman who led the NBA in free throw percentage seven times! (Bill Sharman still holds the record for consecutive free throws in the playoffs with 56.) Now that I look back I’m amazed at the privilege I had to receive instruction from these great coaches.

But even greater is the legacy of character and faith that he instilled in everyone. I’ve read his books and interviews and heard numerous comments about him from former players.

A couple of simple sentences illustrate some of his wisdom. In the Associated Press obit: “Asked in a 2008 interview the secret to his long life, Wooden replied: ‘Not being afraid of death and having peace within yourself. All of life is peaks and valleys. Don’t let the peaks get too high and the valleys too low.’

“Asked what he would like God to say when he arrived at the pearly gates, Wooden replied, ‘Well done.’”

I suspect that is exactly what he heard last night.

For more inspiration from Coach Wooden, here are some of my favorite quotes:

“Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.”

“You can’t let praise or criticism get to you. It’s a weakness to get caught up in either one.”

“If you’re not making mistakes, then you’re not doing anything. I’m positive that a doer makes mistakes.”

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

“It’s what you learn after you know it all that counts.”

“It’s the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen.”

“Talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man-given. Be grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be careful.”

“Success comes from knowing that you did your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming.”

“Success is never final, failure is never fatal. It’s courage that counts.”

“Don’t measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished with your ability.”

“Adversity is the state in which man mostly easily becomes acquainted with himself, being especially free of admirers then.”

“Consider the rights of others before your own feelings, and the feelings of others before your own rights.”